Curious about marriage agencies?

July 25, 2014

(Duo ad photo)

By Tae Hong

Resorting to dating services may seem like conceding defeat to many, but the fact of the matter is, matchmakers have been around forever in Asia. Elders would even point to today’s soaring divorce rate and tell you that it’s the better way.

Enter marriage agencies, wholly Korean-style companies where your next date comes to you with a pre-screened, manager-selected profile.

“This service is for people who want to get married but can’t trust the people they meet online,” says Jennifer Lee, branch manager at Duo, one such agency located in Los Angeles.

The agency, and many others like it, has been a mainstay in Korean society for years. In the U.S., they’re rarer to come by, but it’s there.

While some may look to find a suitable marriage partner in terms of love, matchmaking agencies focus on factors like clients’ income, education and profession, Lee says.

Duo, an 18-year-old institution, says it is the largest operation of its kind, serving more than 29,000 members across 14 branches in Korea, New Zealand and the U.S. It also claims more than 29,000 successfully married members on an updated counter on its website, which combines numbers from all of its branches.

“This is a professional business,” Lee says. “People think of old-school arranged meetings from TV dramas when they hear about us. But we understand our clients as products. When a product is released, you need to know how the product was made and how to use it to produce the best results.”


Duo L.A. Branch Manager Jennifer Lee. (Photo courtesy of Duo)

Duo L.A. Branch Manager Jennifer Lee. (Photo courtesy of Duo)

“It’s cheaper online, but there’s no guarantee and it’s not transparent,” Lee says. “Profiles here are.”

Clients first fill out a profile detailing their education, income, debt, height, weight, drinking and smoking habits, religion, blood type, hobbies, interests and family backgrounds, including parents’ occupations and education.

A contract pledging abstinence from drugs and game addiction has to be signed before a couple manager — “Everyone here graduated from UCLA, UC Irvine. We’re trained professionals,” Lee says — is assigned to match a client to another. Clients receive five meetings per payment.

First dates are arranged by managers after each client agrees to meet the other based on a profile. Managers call the next day to check on the results and to act as advice-givers.

“We become friends with the client. We tell them, ‘You get introduced to people through your friends. Don’t feel burdened and consider me a friend,’” she says. “I’ll find someone who fits you. Why not?”


Here are statistics from the L.A. Duo branch:

Fifty one percent of its members are female, and 49 percent male.

The most prevalent among male clients are office workers, who make up 13 percent of the membership. Others include doctors (10 percent), engineers (10 percent), dentists (10 percent), businessmen (10 percent), professors (8 percent), government employees (8 percent) and lawyers (6 percent).

Lawyers make up 18 percent of the female clientele. Other clients are office workers (14 percent), nurses (10 percent), doctors (7 percent), pharmacists (7 percent), CPAs (6 percent), teachers (5 percent), designers (5 percent) and doctorate students (5 percent).

The breakdown of income among male clients is as follows: 30 percent make $150,000 to $250,000; 24 percent make $100,000 to $150,000; 23 percent make $250,000 to $400,000; 18 percent make more than $400,000; and 5 percent make less than $100,000.

And the average income of female clients: 45 percent make $50,000 to $150,000; 27 percent make $150,000 to $250,000; 15 percent make less than $50,000; and 13 percent make more than $250,000.

Twenty-seven percent of its members were born in the U.S., and 30 percent came to the U.S. aged 5 to 10.


An office inside the Duo L.A. branch. (Photo courtesy of Duo)

An office inside the Duo L.A. branch. (Photo courtesy of Duo)

It all comes down to this question: What are Koreans in the U.S. looking for when they walk in through the door, and how much are they willing to pay for it?

Duo, for one, charges a base fee of $3,500.

“Don’t think of it as receiving a profile after paying money for it,” Lee says. “When your body is sick, you go to the hospital to get treatment. Marriage is the most important thing in your life. So what if you went to Harvard and got a Ph.D, if you can’t get married?”

If clients are divided into classes depending on location, income and family background in the Korean branch, they’re based less on background and more on the individual in the U.S., she says.

“We don’t specifically divide our clients by classes. We divide them by profession, education,” she says. “If we feel someone will need more help and take more of our time, then we charge more.”

Lee, who has been working at the L.A. branch for 14 years since its opening, says she sees a distinct difference between Korean Americans and Koreans.

“Here, clients want someone they can make money with together, someone they can raise the kids with together,” she says. “That’s why someone from Korea who just wants to be a housewife doesn’t work here.”


Robert Kim*, a 30-year-old commercial banker at an undisclosed firm, is a typical client of the agency: a white-collar worker whose annual income exceeds $150,000.

“It’s for people who are serious about marriage,” he says. “It put me at ease because it’s a lot of money. So I know that girls who join aren’t just there to mess around. Being a busy professional, I don’t have all the time in the world to just go on dates. I just kind of wanted it pre-screened out, a working professional who’s ready to get married.”

Inside its 14-year-old L.A. branch, walls painted red and couch pillows pink, Lee and four couple managers maintain what they say is a 45 percent marriage success rate. That’s one in two clients.

One in two? For arranged meetings?

“Because this is a place people come to get married,” Lee says. “It’s not about, ‘Oh, I want to see if I find someone I like here.’ You’re paying almost $1,000 per person to meet them — clients only meet people they really might marry.”

Kim, who joined the service after hearing about it from a friend while attending a wedding, says he was looking for chemistry.

“It wasn’t because I had a problem meeting people. I had girlfriends before this whole process,” he says. “It’s just hard to meet people in L.A. If you go out into the dating scene, where do you go to find quality people? How the hell do you ask somebody, ‘How much money do you make? What kind of debt do you have? How’s your credit? Tell me what your parents do.’ Those things are all given in a profile.”

He started dating Grace Shin*, a graduate student studying in L.A., through the agency four months ago.

Shin, 30, said she resisted going to a marriage agency and was dragged to the office by her mother.

“It was societal pressure,” she recalls. “I just kept saying, ‘No, Mom. I don’t need it. I can find someone by myself.’”

For Shin, who had come to the U.S. from Korea to pursue her master’s degree about two and a half years ago, using a marriage agency felt like a result of pressure from expectant friends and family.

She says she came around to using the service when she realized she didn’t know whether she would actually succeed in finding someone to marry.

“Sometimes you really don’t know what to expect from someone,” Shin says. “I’m a simple person, but I’m pretty sure everyone likes money and status for marriage. I just wanted to be happy. I want a family, a good father for my kids.”


*Names have been changed at the request of the sources, who do not wish for their friends, family and colleagues to know about their membership in the service.


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